Pegging
Pegging is a sexual activity in which (commonly) a vulva owner performs penetrative anal sex on a penis owner. The anal penetration is usually performed using a strap-on dildo or other sex toy.
It can give someone who doesn't own a penis the chance to explore what that might feel like and can give a penis owner a chance to be penetrated!
Pegging does not affect sexuality/ Receivers can be completely heterosexual and love pegging - it does not change this!
How To
Pegging should be approached slowly and with care, ESPECIALLY if it is for the first time.
Use LOTS of lube/ If you can purchase anal lube, which is specially designed to be thick and jelly-like, the do.
Cover the strap on dildo with a condom and plenty of lube, put some lube on the anus too. With consent, slowly push the dildo into the anus. If your partner says it hurts, stop immediately. Do not try to go fast immediately and listen carefully to what your partner needs.
Make sure that you focus on aftercare once you have finished - talk about how you both felt about it and whether you might like to do it again. Anal sex can leave the receiver feeling vulnerable due to the shame associated with it, so make sure to provide care once you have finished your play session.
Benefits
For penis owners, pegging gives the opportunity to feel sensation in the prostate, which can be felt inside the anus/ It can stimulate the P-spot with firm pressure, leading to intense orgasms.
Pegging can also dip into dominance roles and create a change in sexual dynamics! It can offer a sense of control, or loss of control, depending on what you're into! Pegging can be performed as a BDSM act, but is not strict to this.
Remember
Pegging is a sexual activity in which (commonly) a vulva owner performs penetrative anal sex on a penis owner. The anal penetration is usually performed using a strap-on dildo or other sex toy.
It can give someone who doesn't own a penis the chance to explore what that might feel like and can give a penis owner a chance to be penetrated!
Pegging does not affect sexuality/ Receivers can be completely heterosexual and love pegging - it does not change this!
How To
Pegging should be approached slowly and with care, ESPECIALLY if it is for the first time.
Use LOTS of lube/ If you can purchase anal lube, which is specially designed to be thick and jelly-like, the do.
Cover the strap on dildo with a condom and plenty of lube, put some lube on the anus too. With consent, slowly push the dildo into the anus. If your partner says it hurts, stop immediately. Do not try to go fast immediately and listen carefully to what your partner needs.
Make sure that you focus on aftercare once you have finished - talk about how you both felt about it and whether you might like to do it again. Anal sex can leave the receiver feeling vulnerable due to the shame associated with it, so make sure to provide care once you have finished your play session.
Benefits
For penis owners, pegging gives the opportunity to feel sensation in the prostate, which can be felt inside the anus/ It can stimulate the P-spot with firm pressure, leading to intense orgasms.
Pegging can also dip into dominance roles and create a change in sexual dynamics! It can offer a sense of control, or loss of control, depending on what you're into! Pegging can be performed as a BDSM act, but is not strict to this.
Remember
- any anal intercourse must be apporached with care - use lots of lube to ensure that you avoid injury (e.g. anal fissures) and focus it around pleasure.
- communicate - make sure you and your partner are speaking through the entire experience. If something is painful or doesn't feel right, speak up - safe words are a good idea, especially during control play.
- hygiene - you might see poo. It is a bum at the end of the day! Prepare for this with towels or wipes to reduce the stress of what to do if it does happen.
